Women meet a lot of types of men. A lot of women think that they meet The One when upon meeting they feel like something clicks, or the thunder and lightning happens, or they just feel it immediately. Unfortunately, in the majority of cases, this is not the case and he is not The one. Most likely, a woman meets her karmic partner, and it happens in 90 % of cases when a woman thinks she met the man of her dreams. In reality, she meets the man of her karma that will be working with her in resolving karmic lessons.
If that made you sad, please don’t. It is a good thing because that means at the end of these relationships, however long they last, you will come out wiser and more experienced than you were at the beginning. Perhaps you already had this relationship in the past? To understand that, let’s see what are 3 types of men each woman meets in her life, and how to understand who is The One.
It is important to remember that every man in your life appears for a reason and none of them are accidental. They just have different goals and reasons for being in your life.
1. Man-Karmic Debtor
This kind of relationship happens when the two owe something to each other, or in other words – when there is a karmic debt between the two. Usually in this type of relationship, a man would invest a lot in a woman, financially or emotionally and the woman does not reciprocate or does not feel any love or care for him. So it is usually not equal.
In another scenario, a woman is the one who gives a lot to a man, including her feelings and emotions, but only because she owes him karmically. She owes him something from the past life, so it makes them stay together without any apparent reasons.
Karmic relationships are usually the strongest ones in terms of the “glue” that keeps two people together, while simultaneously making this relationship hard. It is hard to separate even when two people try to. If they don’t work out their karmic debt, they simply cannot go apart and let each other go. Once they fulfill their debt and exchange the necessary amount of energy, feelings, or time, they will be parted ways.
We all had this kind of relationship, when we get stuck with someone and this person does not feel anything to us. Usually, a woman starts thinking that he is the one, so she invests so much in it. She starts loving him so hard, she prays for him, she wants to help him. Unfortunately, she will just keep giving, both energetically and physically, and won’t be able to do anything about it.
So, when a woman meets these types of men, she needs to step away and not get involved too much. She should keep living her life, sending this man love mentally, and avoid thinking that he is The One.
2. Man-Teacher
As you can probably tell, this type of man appears in your life to teach you something. And he will stay in your life until you learn the lesson. These men can be different, kind or not so kind. They can be married or single, they can humiliate you or praise you. It does not matter.
What matters is – they will teach you. They will teach you to believe in yourself, to love yourself, to discover your feminine qualities, to build relationships with other men. And they will teach you to be confident and to be wise. They will help you find your value. It can be either one man, or it can take several of them. As soon as a woman learns her lesson, he may disappear from her life at the same moment.
3. Man-For-Life
We finally made it to the type of men that women need in their life. And the reason we need these men is because they are not going to take anything from us. On the contrary – they will fill us up. They will give us something, they will open us up. With these men, we need to build relationships, start families, live, and grow together. So, as you may have already guessed, these are the best types of men so that we, women, can fully open up and bloom.
However, to be able to meet them, we often need to go through two previous groups first.
As you probably see, oftentimes we get together and get involved with men and find ourselves in immature relationships. This happens because a woman refuses to wait and to go through all the lessons of life until she meets something, or someone, she really needs. This is when she accepts to be just with anybody, or the opposite – she keeps refusing anyone waiting only for her Prince. None of these scenarios are healthy and right, as you need to go through certain relationships to find The Relationship. It is important to understand that a man who is worthy will appear at the moment you are ready to accept him.
Hello, is it preferable for a woman to get married only once? And if she discoveres that her husband is not “the one”, should she work on her marrige and try to love her man agaim or get divorced? I am asking what the spiritual outlook of divorce.
Thank you.
Hello! The spiritual outlook of divorce can depend on the level of spirituality. If we talk more traditional spirituality (within a religion or tradition), then yes, it is preferable for a woman not to divorce her husband unless there is any true harm done to her. It is believed that leaving a man or husband is not beneficial for a woman’s karma. As when we get married, we unite not only two individuals but also two different ancestry trees (which is a loooot of people). If we take more general spirituality (i.e. Universal one), there is no such thing as divorce. Even if we divorce on Earth, we stay connected on some other level still.
I hope I did not confuse you but gave you more options to look at and contemplate. It is easy to destroy what was built. I would say, do your best as a woman to make it work, and if nothing changes, then let it go and see what happens. <3