Geisha is a Japanese word for a woman who entertain men with conversations, performing dance and singing, art and other distinctive actions. For centuries these women have been a great attraction for men of all nationalities because of their mysterious and charming presence.
I know what you are thinking. What it has to do with me, since I am not living in Asia? And isn’t Geisha another term for a prostitute? Not really. While they can have an intimate connection with a man, her main duty is to be present and to create a lovely atmosphere through communication. So, it is not just physical connection, it is also a connection of souls and minds.
And sometimes, this is something that men are looking for and cannot find with regular women. Geishas are not getting paid for that either.
And even though Geishas come from East, they have wonderful qualities that Western women can try to adapt simply to be a source of joy and pleasure that will in turn bring peace and harmony in any company.
Geisha is a woman of art, simply. Men come to her to have complete rest, to get inspiration and energy. Geishas were educated specifically to do their duty and studies would include philosophy, art, dancing and communication.
There are certain rules that Geishas follow that would be incredibly beneficial to learn for Western women. Let’s look at them.
It is never allowed for a woman to look bad. Her skin, hands, legs and hair have to be well taken care of and neat. It does not necessarily involve makeup. In fact, most women look beautiful without any makeup.
It is important for Geisha to know dancing, singing, painting, because she is truly a person of art. She is trying to be skillful in all creative aspects and her self-growth is one of the most important things for her. She always learns and stays open to new knowledge.
Geisha is a source of positivity and happiness in this world of chaos and worries. When a man is near her, she gives him hope. She wakes up his deepest and most subtle feelings because of how gentle and soft she is with him. Geishas are taught to be organized, calm and positive. They are not allowed to show negativity openly or be too emotional. Before she speaks, she smiles first. This is a wonderful rule of communication in a modern world full of aggression and anger.
Geisha is a very skillful conversationalist. She always thinks before she speaks. Her speech is very clear and simple, and her vocabulary is very rich. She also has a special ability to understand man’s way of thinking and desires before he says it out loud. So conversations with her are always easy and pleasant. She never judges or impose her opinion on anyone. In fact, she is able to calm down and even get rid of worries and doubts. She is a very wise counselor.
Her appearance says it all. She is humble and pure. Her movements are elegant, never harsh or rude. She is never vulgar. Geisha is always calm and always creates an appearance of submissiveness. Notice, that she creates an appearance to bring peace. She is not necessarily always submissive herself.
Most of these rules are easy to do and will only require a little bit of efforts. I would encourage you to try and play with them. And see how you change the world around you with your soft presence and calm nature. If anything, your man will definitely appreciate it and will see you as a true source of peace, happiness and stability. And who doesn’t want that?