What is the highest femininity and how is it different from regular femininity? Not much different, it is just another form of it and everyone can choose whatever they see fit. Let me explain a little more.
It appears that there are a few types of femininity out there from what I witness. Here they are.
Types Of Femininity
→ spiritual femininity – as in hippie type of femininity that talks about the divine feminine
→ feminist type of femininity – the one that is about women’s independence and equal rights
→ traditional femininity – usually somehow related to religion and talks about traditional gender roles of a woman in a couple
→ ladylike femininity – the one about etiquette, manners, proper dresses and speech
Those are most prominent ones, please feel free to share more types if you notice them. This last one is something I am personally very interested in although I am also very much into the divine feminine and gender roles without the religious aspect of it. The highest form of femininity covers a little bit of everything and takes the main aspects of femininity from all of those types, creating a basic image of a feminine woman.
So what does it really mean? To put it simply, it is just about how to be a woman no matter the circumstances, age, money, education, experience, and knowledge. There is this core basic concept of femininity that makes you a woman instantly once you understand and follow it. And it is very easy to follow because understanding it equals remembering it. It means you already have all of those qualities, you just did not know how and where to use them. Of course, a few things can still be learned but the majority of them are innate in every one of us.
I will start with the opposite to make it easier to understand. Roughly, most women now are divided into two categories: either very feminine lady-like Queen, or very down-to-earth simple woman who has to deal with life. There is not much in between. And once you hit the bottom, due to life, it may be very hard to climb back up. However, it is still very possible.
When I say “Queen” I really don’t mean someone older, or wiser, or richer. Queen, who represents the highest form of femininity, is about these things: style, straight back, good manners, intellect, kindness, dignity, and two most important things – high values and high standards. So you can see now how it does not really matter if you have money or not because you can still be a Queen just by behaving like one, even if you live in a very modest apartment and have a very low paid job. It may be harder to do, but not impossible.
Of course, it takes some work. And it is easier to not do that. Because well, why would you make an effort when you can be happy enough with your simple job, with just enough money, just enough food, and just enough men, right?
Reasons to “Queen”
Well, there are at least three reasons why you can at least try to be a Queen even at the very bottom of your life.
Love. You cannot really deny it that you want it. And I mean – real love. Men can be attracted to simple women, they can be into them, they can want them, they can have them and even have a family with them. However, they can only truly love only a Queen. Love completely, fully, unconditionally, transformatively. Because loving a Queen makes them a King.
Youth and beauty. Or at least, youthfulness. Why do so many people crave it, especially women? Not because of the looks. Because of the energy. Someone who looks young must have a lot of energy. Every single person intuitively feels it. So women want to look young. The highest form of femininity is like a psychological corset – it holds you and does not let you fall down too soon. It does not let you become genderless creatures who do not care about their beauty, looks, energy, youthfulness, attractiveness, juiciness, everything. You know who I am talking about. Women who forgot they used to be women.
Family. I mean a really strong family that lasts for a long time, with many children and grandchildren, a real legacy. And all of those children and grandchildren have healthy comfortable childhood. Only a real woman, a Queen, can create and maintain such a family for many years.
How to Become a Queen
If you like what I said, you might like to become a Queen. So how do you become Her? Or how do you keep remembering Her despite all of the struggles of life? How do you stay a real woman no matter the circumstances? The easiest way is to pick yourself a feminine role model and think of her every time you are in doubt. Who represents the Highest and Ultimate Woman for you who is also a real Lady? Once you think of her, it will be easier to make decisions. What would Grace Kelly wear? How would Lady D respond? What would Kate Middleton do? How would Cleopatra take care of herself? Become Her and you will know what to do.
A few more things to help you stay within the highest form of femininity:
∴ Avoid cursing and swearing. While it may be satisfying or tempting, it is actually a bad habit. Just like smoking or nail-biting. Swearing brings you low immediately. In fact, these words actually originate from a very ancient sacred language for men only for special occasions that were used carefully and intentionally. This language is very highly vibrationally charged, but the frequency of this vibration is very low. So cursing for a woman is almost the same as taking man’s hormones.
∴ Avoid heavy drinking. I am personally against any sort of alcohol drinking, but heavy drinking is an absolute no-no for a woman. Not only it is very damaging for our fragile health and psyche, but it is also very addictive and can turn you quickly from Queen to something very ugly.
∴ Avoid unhealthy food and especially fast or junk food. This kind of food may be comforting or satisfying, but it is also very degrading and has the same low vibrational frequency. It also turns you into a pumpkin, and sometimes literally. Not to mention the esthetic component of it when we eat it, or more precisely a lack of thereof.
∴ Rethink tattoos. I will be honest – I used to want to have one tiny one myself. But it was a long time ago and only lasted for a few months. I don’t have any and frankly don’t find them attractive on a woman’s body. Again, thinking about a Lady… makes it hard to imagine her with a tattoo. Even a tiny one. If you do like them, choose wisely and pick tastefully.
∴ Be selective about your circle of friends. I am not sure how to say it in a more delicate way. Yes, it is very important who you surround yourself with, who you spend time with. They do influence you and you may pick up on their way of speaking or behavior as you spend time with them. It is that kind of woman who makes you think things like “all men are the same”, “this life is unfair”, “women are always weaker”, “you have to hustle/fight/be independent in order to survive”. Those are wounded women who are psychologically and maybe physically damaged. If you are not one of them (and even if you are), you should not spend time with them. Their mindset is that of a victim, and unfortunately, they will never be a good company.