I was trying to figure out the ending of this title for a few minutes but I left it like that. I could have added “lovingly” or “to be successful” or “to be more giving”, as you have requested it. And the fact is, my article will encompass all of these and even more. How to inspire your man to many things, how does that sound?
Let’s make it clear. It may sound like we are making him do something for us, which for some could come across as manipulation. I personally do not see it this way because it does not come for me with the purpose of making him do something differently or better. That is not my purpose. In reality, I don’t even have a purpose. And I think it is probably the most authentic and simple way of doing it. Inspire your man simply because you like being the one who inspires – his muse. What happens after and with him is technically none of your business. But spoiler alert – whatever happens will be good for both of you, naturally.
So, to be able to inspire someone to do something all you need to do is to become a muse. That is a shortcut. A woman can easily be a muse because it is one of the female archetypes that every female on this Earth has. So the only task here is to realize it and to discover it. Well, two tasks. What does it mean – to be a muse?
To Be A Muse
To be a Muse is not only about inspiring. To be a Muse is about arranging the space around you the way that everything happens easily with the inspiration from a Muse. So, whatever you will inspire will happen one way or another. I would say, it is some sort of feminine practical magic.
A real Muse can create a harmonious space just with her presence there. She can soften the hardness of life and makes this space warm, cozy, and full of creativity, in other words, a perfect place for things happen the best way possible. After all, the main mission of a Muse is to inspire.
What Does Inspiration Mean?
When someone is inspired, they do not have any doubts about what they are doing. There is courage in actions, clarity in thinking, and in everything – what to do and how. There is also hope, that everything happens in the best way and will end successfully. And hope in the abundance of the Universe, where everything is possible. So when a Muse inspires, she is the catalyst that turns gray reality into bright creativity.
Another wonderful skill of a Muse is the ability to restore, renew, and refill with new energy for future victories. It is truly an amazing source of power and harmony for those who have a Muse as their companion. By bringing new energy, harmony, and inspiration, a Muse becomes a guide between two worlds: between the subtle world of our talents and desires, and the material world where anything can happen. That is the real magic of the Muse.
And, as mentioned earlier, the good news is every woman can be a Muse and inspire. So how do we do that exactly?
This is about accepting him as your man and accepting him as a leader. Once you recognize and accept his masculine authority, magic happens. When you do this, you’ll feel that you now have this internal feeling that every final decision will be after him. This is important. When a man makes a decision, he is automatically responsible for the consequences of this. This, in turn, gives him more confidence, stronger and wiser. In other words, most if not all masculine qualities activate in him and positively affect your whole relationship.
It is a good idea to get rid of your idea that you know better.
Additionally, by accepting him, you accept his right to be himself. So, it is a good idea to get rid of your idea that you know better. Just simply let him be and let him be free. Do not try to make him better or someone else. Acceptance means you accept him with all of his qualities: strengths, and weaknesses.
Part of trusting is trusting in his authority and his leadership. It is very difficult to do if you are in the archetype of a Mother (which a lot of women are nowadays), and always know better trying to tell him what to do. Just trust him, and trust in his ability to make the right decision. His decision or his vision may not be the same as yours, however, it does not mean it is wrong.
Believe He Is Your Man
It is important to remember and be sure that this is your man. This man is the only man you accept as yours, and you are ready to give him your love and your admiration, so serve him in a feminine way. Once you realize he is yours, it will be easy to do. Besides, emotions like these are hard to ignore and he will notice them for sure. In fact, he will feel them all with every cell of his body, heart, and soul, and it will make him feel important and needed in your life.
Be Grateful For What He Does
You have to become grateful in general, and especially for your man. Why “you have to”? Because being grateful for everything in life is one of the paths to happiness. Many teachers and leaders say how gratitude is important because it is. It is your ability to be joyful about what you have now and accepting of things the way they are as the only way and the only true way is the way to happiness and peace, as well as abundance in all areas of your life. You accept what you give out, as always.
If you are grateful for what he does, your man feels it. He feels good that you appreciate what he does and he naturally wants to do even more and give you more things. And it is not only about material things, we also talk about emotions and feelings.
Beauty is the power that inspires a man very much. Our look is the very first thing every man notices when he meets us. And if our look is not attractive enough for him, he simply won’t continue. So, staying beautiful is one of the honorable duties of a great woman. If you ignore this part, there won’t be much inspiration coming from you. It is hard to do nothing near a beautiful Goddess, and it is hard to be mean and rude near a sweet and friendly woman, with beautiful hair and jewelry.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so noticing all the beautiful things around you is part of your Beauty Mission. Muses are beautiful, sweet beings that smile a lot, are very in love with someone they inspire, and believe in him strongly. They truly know how to enjoy life. They enjoy the scent of soap, a berry from dessert, a kiss, and soft warm wind. There is so much beauty in this world that you can enjoy. A Muse constantly soaks this beauty through the enjoyment of this world.
Give Him Pleasure
Pleasure can be two kinds: subtle and physical. Physical pleasure is physical contact like sex, or massage, or touching. Subtle pleasure is smile, kind words, positive emotions, laughter, and flirting.
So, some women complain that all their men want is sex. It often happens when a woman does not give her man enough of a subtle type of pleasure. He needs this fuel of delicate feminine energy. And there are many ways to get it, not only from sex. A woman can give it with a kiss, a sweet loving word, tender touch, and many other sweet things.
Love Yourself As A Woman
This has two parts: love yourself in general and love yourself as a woman. This includes accepting your feminine self-value. This is where you should be starting your path to your happy woman’s life. If you have love and abundance inside of you, you will attract the same things outside. When you respect, value and love your man, you appreciate everything that he does, he in turn gives your protection, faithfulness and love, and guards you as the most precious jewel. This kind of exchange can be really neverending. Your feminine qualities will grow and come out more, filling you with warmth and softness, and bringing out all the masculine qualities in him. That is when a couple remains in the constant growth of relationships, full of abundance and love.
Remember that you are a woman, and your mission is very sacred and very special. Following your feminine path will naturally help you with inspiration for your man and your own happiness.