The Buddhist in me whispers that nothing is really important in this life. However, being born as a woman in a woman’s body tells me there is a certain path I can and should follow because it just creates a better life. For me and for others. And let’s be honest, a feminine woman generally has better (as in – healthier, longer, deeper) relationships and family. I mean, I have plenty of examples, and you probably too, if you think about it. Also, those examples mostly include older couples. It could be that life used to be different, or it could be that women and femininity used to be different – it was more prevalent and more appreciated.
Finding My Feminine Side
I have to confess – I was not born feminine. I was born a pretty girl, but that did not make me automatically feminine. In fact, I was the opposite. I was a tomboy exploring the darkest basements, highest roofs and trees, and stepping on a very thin ice only to find myself falling through it in a cold river’s water (yes, that really happened when I was in high school). And then later on, in my early twenties, I enjoyed the look with more masculine features in my clothing and would avoid the color pink on purpose everywhere. I loved playing on the contrast of my pretty face and masculine outfits. And yes, it was actually sexy and different looking.
That was until I realized that I had several issues with my reproductive organs. And I would never have a stable long-term relationships with men. And I was not sure who I am and what was I doing here. I did not even want children or to be married. What kind of a future was I looking at if I were to continue like this? Not a happy one.
A wise woman is happy no matter the age because she understands very well that people around her need her femininity. When I learned that and how femininity can transform my life, I could not stop myself from diving deeper and deeper. And that is when I finally started to feel why I was who I was and the way I am. I realized I adore being a woman. And I want to learn the art of womanhood as much and as deeply as I can. So, what does femininity give every woman?
What Femininity Gives Us
1. Truly feminine woman will get in life anything she wants – easily and with pleasure.
2. Her health will be good and her reproductive organs will function amazingly.
3. She won’t have this internal emptiness and dissatisfaction.
4. She will have beautiful relationships with a man and she will have wonderful children.
Sounds dreamy, isn’t it? Well, it is possible but it takes work. No one said being a truly feminine woman would be easy. Although I believe every woman can be feminine, it takes time and dedication to discover the feminine essence inside of us and keep nourishing it daily. Every one of us is like a seed with a flower inside. We all have this potential to grow and bloom, but it takes extra care for the bloom to come out. Which flower do you envision yourself as?
And even if we imagine that a not so feminine woman can attract a great man, eventually she would start pressuring him. Sooner or later, due to the fact that she did not discover her feminine side, she would naturally start competing with him, arguing, fighting, and doing many other things to show him who is the boss. And in the relationships between a man and a “man in a skirt” (or mostly jeans, actually), there cannot be harmony and happiness. These relationships will eventually fail because there can be only one male in any couple.
The Secret Power of Femininity
No matter what most modern women think, there is a great, great power in true femininity. It is nowhere near a weakness or victim mentality like most think nowadays (for some unknown reason). There a saying – “woman’s happiness”. For a feminine woman, versus a masculine one, generally life happens with ease and the way it is supposed to be. She is happy and her feminine energy is enough for her man, her children, and for all of the loved ones and friends. That is a woman’s happiness.
A woman’s power of femininity is something we simply need to learn how to use. And once we know it, it would bring us amazing results that every one of us dream of. Some of them I just mentioned above. When that happens, there will be much fewer unhappy, drained, stressed women who are trying to rule the whole world, starting with their families. Those same women will finally realize that there are plenty of wonderful men around them and that they actually exist. And that the main reason for their unhappiness lies within them – in their prevention of being happy and feminine.
Femininity vs. Weakness
Please, hear me it once and for good. Femininity DOES NOT equal weakness. It does not equal being a doormat. It does not equal being basic and shallow. All of those gorgeous beautiful and feminine celebrity women we all know have the same thing in common – they have the greatest power of spirit and self-confidence. All of those women know what a balanced and happy world between a man and a woman means.
You’ll be surprised but behind femininity, there are much more hidden treasures than you may think. What you think is what manifests in your world. So the first thing you should do is change your way of thinking. To have the life of your dreams, you first need to change yourself internally to become your own dream for yourself. And second of all, you need to start attracting the right type of men in your life. And you should not accept anything less. The third step will happen on its own like magic. Once you do all these things, the world around you start changing. And there you have it – the life of your dreams.
Femininity is Woman’s Health
The energy of femininity is truly healing. Our feminine energetics is our psychological health and happiness. Femininity is connected a lot with motherhood and motherly qualities. Like a mother, a feminine woman can heal and appease any troubles, worries, traumas and injuries, of the body and of the soul. Feminine energy is like a magical healer that calms everyone down and brings joy and softness.
A true femininity is quiet, radiant lovely beauty that comes from within and grants the peace for the soul and the feeling of harmony.
It takes time and effort to transform yourself from simply a woman to a beautiful, radiant and lovely feminine woman. To begin, you can simply find all of the masculine qualities in you and start developing the opposites of them. Stubborn? Find flexibility. Aggressive? Try being easy-going. Ambitious? Find satisfaction in what is. Most of these things we stick to due to our many traumas in childhood, incorrect upbringing and education, and the wrong image we are getting from the media. It is time to turn back to your true self and discover your incredible, undeniable feminine power and magic.
If you are ready to dive in, keep an eye on my website. I am working hard to create a first course on femininity for you. I guarantee – you will love it.