A woman is a mystery to guide a wise and open man. – Rumi
The nature of woman is to share the gift of her beautiful presence that transforms everything and everyone around her. Woman has everything she needs to make her dreams a reality. She has her whole Universe inside of her. She has the whole world of emotions that is so hard to understand for a man.
Woman will always be one of the biggest mysteries in this world. A man is yet to discover her fully, and her natural beauty constantly fascinates him. What is a mystery of woman and how can us, women, can maintain it in the best possible way?
Modern oriental women are a true masters in this, and they maintain their mystery skillfully and effortlessly every day. One of them once shared: “Western women are so strange. It can take an hour for them to get ready to go outside, to put make up and do the hair. Only to seduce strangers, men they do not know that pass them by on the street. And when they come back, they put on something old or unattractive, and show like that in front of their men. For us here, it is the opposite. We are our best at home, with husbands around. When we go outside, we try to hide our beauty. We don’t need unnecessary attention from other men”.
While this may be seen as strict, repressive or old-fashioned way, there is something in it we can learn.
How to keep the mystery
We can learn the mystery of femininity. What can we do to keep our mysterious nature intact and beautiful to men around us?
Stay beautiful at home. Try to put on comfortable but elegant and beautiful clothes even at home. Keep your hair clean and pretty. Smell good. Stay clean all over. Be beautiful every minute.
Keep your beauty routine a secret. Yes, no one really needs to know how you are so beautiful every single morning. It is not necessary to walk around with a facial mask on. No one, and especially your man, should be involved in your beauty secrets.
Keep the hygiene and intimate products away. Everything concerning your intimate health, your cycle, your underwear (unless it is something very sexy) should not be easily seen and lay around. It is a very intimate and even sacred area. Keep it this way.
Taking care of you is a solo activity. No matter how cute or natural it may seem, it is actually not right to cut nails, pluck eyebrows, put make up in front of your man. This is for you and you only and should remain this way all the time. Men and simply people should only see the final result.
Avoid discussion of your intimate health. Your health and hygiene routine should not be shared with someone other than your doctor, or maybe a very close friend or two. This is a sensitive subject that not everybody wants to hear, and you should not involve your man in it. By all means, it does not mean you are not a real couple. It only means you actually think of him in a respectful way and keep your relationships sacred and special. Don’t take the mystery of yourself in such mundane topic of conversation.
In Vedic tradition, very many years ago, women always had their own room and even bedroom. They would spend day and sometimes night there, separately from their men. This way they were ensuring their beauty remained secret and their love stayed fresh and exciting for a very long time. They only allowed their men to see them when they looked good and smelled good. So men always saw them like this, and thought this was how they always looked. This is very wise, even though some of us, modern people, may not see it this way. It was a very subtle but powerful way of taking care of love and attraction.
Not all of us have our own separate bedrooms but we can surely find some time that we can spend alone, in a bathroom or some other corner, to bring ourselves back to our own beautiful self. And to keep our mystery of woman for many, many years for our men.
Stay beautiful ♥♥♥