Woman is a giver, nurturer, Earth.
Our main center is womb, this is where we create life and where we have our main power station.
For this reason it is uber important for a woman to be present in her body at all times. Not in her head, but in her body.
Head vs Body
Unfortunately, most modern women think of themselves in such way: they are the head with everything inside it, and the body is just a clumsy addition down there somewhere that always causes troubles. Don’t you agree? The truth is, our body is literally our temple, and we need to reside there 24/7. Only in the circumstances, when we need for some outstanding reason to be in our head and use our thinking, instead of feeling, is when we can temporarily “move” back to our head. Those should be the exceptions though.
The rest of the time woman should reside in her body, or more precisely, in her belly, where she self-generates all the energy she needs to be complete on her own. If this works fine, she is relaxed, content and self-sufficient all the time, and share her love and care with others from the state of abundance. You may have experienced this state around some women, especially the ones who are happily in a loving union and with children. This is when a woman is like a real generator of love and joy, by nature.
One sure way to find out if you live in your body or in your head is during the sexual intimacy. Are you able to completely and fully turn off your head and surrender to the process? If this is a problem, you most likely live in your head. If you live in your body, you whole being is drowning in sensations. It is simply impossible to think, about anything whatsoever. That is why therapists and counselors often say that most, if not all, sexual dysfunctions come from the head. This is where the root cause is.
Let’s look at the energetic anatomy of men and women. Men are built the way that they gather energy from above, it enters their head and goes down to the earth. It is called the downward flow of energy. They gather ideas in the form of energy and then manifest them, making them physically present in the reality. For women, their energetic anatomy looks different. We intake the energy from the earth and then direct it up to the sky, which is the upward flow of energy.
If a woman gathers the energy from above (lots of analytical thinking, generating ideas, projects, etc), it means she is disconnected from her woman’s nature and power. Usually it shows on the many levels: diseases and disrupted cycle in the body, confusing thoughts, not knowing what to do in life, now being able to find happiness. It is a feeling of being lost, of missing something. And in fact, it is disconnection.
Woman’s body is naturally built to accept and gather feminine energy, from under her feet, not the other way around. So even if she is good in creating ideas, she will be either unable to manifest them, or won’t have enough time or energy to act upon them. Something will be on the way, or she will be drained, only because she is interacting with foreign masculine energies.
Women can deal perfectly with feelings and emotions, this is where we are pros. However, to be real a pro, we should remain within our bodies. Otherwise we will fail at this task. Living and being in the body is vital for a woman. If it is not happening, we deprive ourselves of pleasure (1), we are unable to give this pleasure (2), and we are completely cut off from our power which makes us unstable (3) – think of trees without roots.
So what gives us this state of living in the body? Besides power and stability, we become true Guardians and Sorcerers of reality. We are able to sustain relationships, to stay beautiful inside and outside, to make life events come true almost on their own, just from the power of our wish. That is when the true magic happens, which in fact is not magic at all. Just simple natural way of things.
Now, a very important note. Most of the time, a feminine nature I am talking about is associated with the state of victim. This happens because modern women are usually only familiar with two states: the state of warrior and conqueror (masculine) or the state of dependent and weak being (victim). Neither of those two have anything to do with feminine state, a real state of woman’s power. A real feminine state consists of two main things:
♥ Love to yourself
♥ Love to your body
That is pretty much it. Everything else just naturally comes out of those two things. If this happens, then woman should not be doing anything at all. She doesn’t have to do anything, imagine that. She just is.
So femininity has nothing to do with weakness or being a victim. It is a very natural, very powerful and very nourishing state that us, women, have the ability to experience just from the fact alone that we are born in a female body.
Stay connected and grounded, lovelies.