Some women barely do anything and yet they emanate this strong sensual charm and feminine charisma. Their presence alone in the room already creates a special atmosphere while they can just sit and silently smile. Have you ever thought how do they do that?
If they don’t do anything in particular, it must come from the inside. And it is truly so. Their confidence and charisma is the result of how they feel deep inside about themselves. Nothing can create such a strong feminine magnetism as the knowledge of a woman that she is the most magnificent and magical being.
Partially, the lingerie that is hidden under the clothes creates this allure as well. It does not matter if someone ends up seeing it or not. Only if it is just the owner herself who knows about it, it instantly creates the feeling of confidence without minimum amount of effort.
This secret weapon helps us to feel like a real woman from head to toe. However, not very many women realize or remember that, for some unknown reason. The majority of women buy lingerie only for special occasions or rarely at all. Aren’t we a special occasion already? And what is the better way to have a mini celebration of ourselves than to wear a pretty lingerie throughout the day several times a week, and not only that one special night?
Learn from France and Italy
Italian and French women in this sense are true connoisseurs of this art. Regardless of the day and time, they always wear beautiful lingerie as a daily piece of clothing. Seducing yourself is a form of self-love and self-care too. By choosing plain and basic set of lingerie we rid ourselves from the elements of spontaneity and imagination. We never know what might happen, and I am talking not only about a sudden make out session. My grandmother’s aunt always had a rule of wearing only the best set of underwear. She’d say: “What if you get hit by a car? And they take you to the hospital, undress you, and what do they see there? Have you though of that? It is better to be always be ready”. So, let’s be always be ready!
Always be ready means wearing the good lingerie daily. Going back to Italians and French, good lingerie is both elegant, beautiful and comfortable. It enhances your curves, your femininity and sensuality, and makes you feel good and comfortable all day long. French women have two types of lingerie, both of which are beautiful and seductive with minor differences: “belle de jour”, beauty of the day, and “belle de nuit”, beauty of the night. The difference is mostly the color palette and some materials. Belle de jour has mainly light or white colors, and more comfortable and practical materials, like cotton. However, it is still pretty. Belle de nuit has darker colors, more laces and intricate details.
Lingerie without a doubt is a very good tool to help us feel more feminine and spread the vibes of femininity on a subtle level. Besides that, men adore lingerie and are often pleasantly surprised if under your pretty clothes they find another layer of prettiness.
Complete nakedness is a little too obvious. It is much more interesting and seductive if there is something that hides some parts of your body, that will allow a man to use his imagination further. What is hidden is more seductive, always. As an added bonus, it creates the mood of the winner automatically. When you know you have a beautiful set under your clothes, you’ll think of it throughout the day and your mood will become better and better. It is like having your loving man touch you all the time, all day long. You wouldn’t want a man that you are no longer interested in to touch you, right? So don’t let the old ugly underwear do the same.
According to modern psychologist, there is a whole lingerie language. It can help understand what kind of woman you are, depending on what color of lingerie you have the most. Let’s look at some of them.
Black lingerie. Very popular lately, black is stylish elegant and sensual color. The majority of this color says that it is not that easy to find a path to the your heart. Black has always been the color of magic, night and all the unknown. In most cases, black color make a woman who wears it very seductive and draws attention strongly. If you have lots of black lingerie, you are never lack of the admirers. You are also most likely very independent and strong spirited woman.
White lingerie. Cleanliness, purity and innocence are usual associations of this color. This is a perfect choice for wearing something daily however it has some tricks on how to match it correctly with clothes. Usually, white lingerie is the choice of a true lady, simple and natural but attractive and charming. Often times these women have a strong sense of justice, and have high standards in life. If you have a lot of white lingerie, you are a practical woman who knows that seducing a man is not about the lingerie.
Red lingerie. The strongest color of lingerie pallet, and usually the main choice of lingerie color according to men’s taste. It is impossible to stay neutral in front of the red lingerie as it provokes passion almost immediately. However, this strong color can correlate with the color of the blood so not everyone can handle it. Usually, if you prefer red color you are a very dynamic, passionate and active woman. You are always curious and ready to celebrate, and most likely a leader in daily life.
Pink lingerie. Pink is actually a shade of red, however has a different meaning. This is the color of youth, romance and growing desire. Pink lingerie will enhance femininity and will create a special atmosphere of intimacy. If you have a lot of pink lingerie, you are a very delicate woman, possibly young. Most likely you are sensitive, flirtatious and trying to avoid all kinds of conflicts in general, so you are very submissive.
Grey lingerie. The most intelligent color is grey. It shows simplicity and conservatism of the owner, as well as strong intellect. Usually, grey lingerie does not evoke any strong emotions unless is has interesting details on it, or pieces of other colors.
Purple lingerie. Purple is the color of a true actress at heart. It stimulates the imagination and intuition. It also symbolizes elegance and grace. This color is very effective when you want to enhance and show you femininity, especially lighter versions purple.
There are many other combinations of colors and styles. The best way to find out which one is yours is to experiment and try it, as always. Try to listen yourself more when you make a choice next time you buy it. Does it make you feel like a true queen, uplifts your mood and make you smile? Then it is probably the one. Do not spare money on a good lingerie for yourself. It is a special treat that everyone of us deserves, so get one for yourself.
Stay sensual, lovelies!