These simple ancient secrets will explain to you why some women can easily find themselves a partner and good relationships while others are struggling alone and cannot seem to find anyone. These secrets allow women not only to manifest their dream relationships but also to attract various opportunities and abundance in their life.
If we look at all the ancient secrets of being a woman the key idea across all of them is this: a woman’s life goal should always be the accumulation of energy and then sharing it with her loved ones, family, friends, her home, and her space. If a woman is able to take care of the house, can create a cozy ambiance, keep it clean, all of her family will always want to be at home. Such a woman will always be loved by her husband and will be a perfect example of a woman to her children.
If a woman is unable to fill her home and her family with the energy, then her man will have issues in his career or business, he will want to be somewhere else and not at home, where he can get that energy. And her children will most likely be less obedient and won’t study well.
According to ancient Chinese secrets, they all think that the main priority and duty for any woman should be her healthy sexuality. It is from this sexuality that we can attract men. Ancient Chinese wise men were seeing a woman as a soil that can bring new life so first of all, she should accumulate her energy.
This type of energy exists within every woman but not very many women know how to restore or rediscover it, how to open it up, and how to eventually use it properly. There are a few main secrets that help you get what you want in your woman’s life if you start following them. And they can help become not only a good mother, partner, and wife, but also help you find yourself in life.
Secret 1: Love yourself
As simple as that, it all starts with love, self-love. All kinds of things happen because of the lack of it: diseases, financial issues, relationships, and many other things. Loving yourself means accepting yourself fully and completely the way you are, your woman’s body, and your woman’s nature. It is hard work but it is totally worth it.
Unfortunately, the modern world has a lot of stereotypes that influence people not in a good way. A lot of them have something to do with beauty standards, with how the woman and her body should look like. This is the reason why women do not accept themselves, and they become anxious about how they look.
Therefore, a few things on what to do (or not to do):
𓇬 Learn to be real. Stop being shy of yourself. The more you love yourself, the more energy you will have to create that coziness and fully realize yourself as a woman.
𓇬 Stop thinking about your failures and limitations. You are a Woman and can be proud of it.
𓇬 Look at yourself closely twice a day. Do it in the morning when you clean your face, and in the evening before you go to bed. Try to find something original and special in yourself and give yourself a compliment. This is important.
𓇬 Remember that there is only one you. You can just look in the mirror or just think about it. This boosts your confidence a lot since truly you are unique and no one else is like you.
Each woman’s body is originally unique and beautiful. And each woman has her own unique femininity. When you can find this in yourself, then other people around you will start noticing it too and will tell you about it. Or they will actually tell you about it out loud.
The most important thing is that you become desirable and lovable for yourself and that you are able to enjoy yourself and your own company. Then you can get all that you want and even more.
Secret 2: Massage
You probably know how many times I recommend massage in my blog if you are a regular reader. Because it is a truly magical, practical method that gives visible results. I adore massage, whether someone is doing it for myself or I am doing it. What it can help us with?
𓇬 Massage can take away muscle and emotional blocks in our bodies.
𓇬 It helps us relax from head to toes. And this will help us feel how our energy flows inside our body.
𓇬 Massage helps us look better.
𓇬 It helps us increase our self-esteem.
So, if you don’t have an opportunity to get yourself a massage, you can massage your own body and especially your feet just before you go to bed, using some delicious smelling foot cream. Put some cream on your hands before you go to bed too. Use some aromatic fragrant oils to massage your body. And of course, massage your breasts as it has tons of benefits. Here is a little bit about them.
Breast massage is a magical tool that can help regulate your cycle, fill you with energy, and increase your self-esteem. It is also very relaxing and sensual. Try to make it a habit to do it daily. This method makes your breasts healthy and overall good for your general health.
Breast Massage Steps
1. Sit comfortably.
2. Start breathing slowly. Calm down and relax.
3. Now imagine you are on the beach somewhere by the beautiful sea or ocean. Warm water touches your feet. Sun is gently warming your skin. You feel comfortable and cozy. You feel good. And you are there alone. Imagine how you breathe that salty air, how you walk along the shore, maybe you go for a swim, and then enjoying the sun for 1-2 minutes.
4. Now start massaging your breast with the tips of your fingers in a circular motion going away from each other. Keep that image of the beach and sun in your mind. Massage yourself gently and carefully.
5. Now, try to feel how energy moves around your whole body. Try to feel how you can control and direct it to any area of your body.
6. Keep massaging yourself for 5 more minutes with your visualization in mind. Feel yourself like a queen. And remember only one thing: it does not matter much what you do but how you think and feel. Love yourself and value yourself.
7. If you have some health issues in your body, direct the energy in that spot while you are doing this body meditation. Imagine how this energy dissolves this disease and you become healthier every time.
Secret 3: Meditation “Inner Smile”
Here is another meditation that you can regularly do and that will help you transform yourself.
1.Just like with the previous meditation, start by sitting in a comfortable position and try to relax.
2. Now, visualize any pleasant place where you feel good. You can use the same place from the previous meditation.
3. Imagine there is a light in your head that can be any shape – a circle, a rose, a diamond, or anything else. It is important that this light is bright and has some warmth.
4. Start bringing it down slowly along your whole body so that it warms you inside. When doing that, imagine this light is smiling at you. It admires you. Do the same for it and smile back.
5. Let this light go through your every organ, and let it wrap around and give love to every organ. Organs respond by smiling back and start beaming with colors as a way to show gratitude.
6. Now, try to feel the fragrance of your body. Feel how your body is blooming and exuding this scent. Feel how much you love yourself.
Secret 4: Be grateful
The most important thing is to be grateful for yourself, among other things. Be grateful for every little thing you do, even something you find not important. Because every little step brings you to big results at the end.
You can start by journaling in a notebook, and call it “Gratitude Notebook”. Write down how good you are, how smart you are, how beautiful you are. Write about what good thing you did for yourself and how you are grateful for that. And remember, that there is only one you and you have yourself. And no matter what you do, you do it for yourself first of all.
You put it so perfectly! I wish more women read this article and I am pretty sure the world will get better. No more divorces, no more anxiety, and depression, the feminity is the answer to everything, really. Lots of love <3
Ksenia Sita says
Hello Artina! Thank you so much for your sweet words. I could probably promote it to let them all know 😉 haha. Lots of love back!
Jennifer Kiel says
EVERYONE should read this.
We often forget our inner powers.
Blessings to you. Thank you 🙏🙏
Ksenia Sita says
Thank you Jennifer! Feel free to share this article with your family and friends <3 <3