One of woman’s roles in life is to be a muse. You might have seen the movie with the same name, but even if you didn’t, it is something in woman’s nature. This role is mostly expressed in a relationship with a man. This is where a woman is able to show all her abilities of a real muse.
There are ten qualities of a muse that I will now share.
1. Quality of Pleasure
This is the most important quality. It means that a muse enjoys herself to the fullest. It can only happen when both femininity and sexuality merge together and create this cocktail of constant pleasure. She enjoys herself every day – her body, her voice, her manners. She literally dissolves in her own presence with pure joy and pleasure. When she does that, this is exactly what other people feel around her, especially men. In fact, the more she enjoys herself, the more men with enjoy her too.
This is the purest most harmonious expression of healthy femininity. She acts as a creator, when she has this quality. She creates this world of complete beauty. So everything around her protects her and carries her through this life.
2. Quality of Acceptance
A muse is always grateful and always accept gifts from a man. Why? Because there is a Universal order of energy exchange. It goes like this: God* gives blessings to a man, a man gives them to his woman, a woman passes them on to their children, and children give them to pets. This order works the other way around too, starting from pets. Which means, when a man gives her woman something, she is in return always grateful for it to him. The energy of gratitude keeps things in order, and then everyone is happy and fulfilled. Everyone receives something. Additionally, the more a man gives to a woman, the more he receives from God.
If a woman is a muse, she will never act with an attitude “I will do it myself”. This will break the order of things and the energy will stop flowing how it should flow. If she does this, she also takes away from a man, from his role in this chain. This happens when she refuses any help, or gifts from him, when she doesn’t ask for any help too. In this case, both of them suffer. The secret here is as soon as a man comes into your life, he has the right to ask for your gratitude when he gives you something. And the energy of gratitude will “feed” him to conquer the world, to make that business deal happen, to finish what he started. It will benefit the world, essentially. All because of you, and your quality of acceptance and gratitude.
3. Quality of Absolute Trust
A real muse has an absolute trust to men and to the whole world. This quality is strongly connected to the first one – the quality of pleasure, and self-love. The lack of trust to the world comes from the lack of self-love. If a woman is absolutely opened and loved, and lives her feminine essence, she will never have a situation where she cannot trust someone. If this comes out, it only shows where exactly a woman lacks love to herself.
This quality of a muse allows a woman to trust that whatever comes to life is for the best, always and every minute. Even if at that moment it doesn’t seem so. And whatever comes also resolves itself in the best possible way. The magic of a muse here is that whatever woman believes her man can do, he truly can. The most deepest and authentic femininity in woman allows her to believe in her man even when he stopped doing it himself. This allows him to get out of the dead end and move forward. This allows him to bring back his true most deepest masculinity, get up and keep going.
4. Quality of Protector and Healer
A muse is protecting male’s ego and is able to heal the whole Universe. How is this connected? Very simple. Believe it or not, but a woman is truly a man’s way to recover and be successful in society. It is because of her he can come back home and finally have complete rest. A muse will be there, ready to take off his shining armors, while he is finally taking a deep breathe out and relaxes. A place where his woman stays should be a place of a complete serenity and peace. Even woman’s energies themselves are naturally peaceful and sweet. So how can it be any other way?
If a man doesn’t have a place to rest like this, he will look for it somewhere else, subconsciously. This can be either friends, sports, alcohol or another woman. His self-esteem depends on a woman, the way he presents himself in society depends on a woman. It can be his woman, or any other woman – sister, mother, daughter. Just any female presence. But if it is his woman, it multiplies a lot. If a man shows an irresponsible behavior, that comes from the lack of trust of his woman. Her duty is to carefully guard and protect his everything: emotions, feelings, his truth, his essence. If she protects it, he protects her and carries her. If this happens all the time, a major healing happens in the whole Universe.
5. Quality of Giving Space
A muse is able to leave a space for a man when he made a mistake. She always gives him an opportunity to act as a man and correct what happened. If she takes this space away every time there is a mistake, the masculine energy is getting thinner every time, because there is no where he can take the energy from to be able to correct the mistake. So he takes it from the energy that should be directed to the correction. This circulation of the energy is always very simple but often forgotten or even not known at all.
6. Quality of Respect
A muse respects many things that include the deepest respect to both men and women. She respects masculine and feminine in herself and every human being, as well as in the Universe, in every nature element and in everything around her. A muse respects men and women in her thoughts, words and actions. She also respects and is grateful for her ancestors, as well as ancestors of all other people because in the end, and in the beginning, we are all truly One. She shows her respect also in the way she presents herself, in the way she looks and dresses.
Woman is a creator of relationships in every sense. If she disrespects one man in her life, she won’t be able to have happy relationships with another. When she is not happy with her own man, it creates a distance between them which in turn subconsciously manifests to a man as betrayal. She might not even say anything, and he will feel it. As a result, he won’t be able to completely relax around her, because he will sense her attitude of judgment.
7. Quality of Closeness
This quality is simply priceless. A muse knows that her man will be the strongest as long as she is with him, close to him. This quality shows how much a woman has developed and nurtured her feminine nature. The more developed it is, the more skillful and balanced she is in the relationships with the masculine. When a woman becomes a muse, every man will want to be near her. The reason is simple: man will subconsciously feel that near that woman he will be able to manifest himself and his masculinity fully and harmlessly, and thus be able to succeed. Every successful man has a woman behind his back. A muse is able to let him come to such heights that he is not able to reach by himself, no matter how hard he tries. Masculine nature can sense all this very well.
8. Quality of Admiration
A muse is able to sincerely admire men, all men. Her own man, her friends, family members, everyone around her. She admires even the littlest things, and most importantly – she truly means it, so it comes from the inside. A man will want to make her happy all the time because he will subconsciously feel that the happier his woman is, the happier the family and the home are. You can practice admiring little things with your family members, and then carry it over to other people and men. If you do it sincerely and if you really mean it, it will energetically nurture your man.
9. Quality of Expression
Emotional body of a woman is seven times stronger than a man’s. Seven! This means her emotions really affect him, a lot. This can be it, we are just different, so what? Well, whatever woman feels will influence everything around her, and first one to experience it will be her man. His emotional status is stable most of the time and stays pretty much the same. Woman’s emotional status depends on her hormones, which makes her different literally every single day.
The fact that a woman is cycling monthly affects her behavior. Not only it changes daily, in fact it can also change throughout the day. And this is simply her physiology, her feminine nature. So when men learn about this nature, it is a surprise for them. They take it as a constant stress that woman have to deal with. For a woman, it is simply her way of being: she is constantly open to everything and notices every little detail. She soaks everything in like a sponge. That is why it is so important to surround yourself with beauty everywhere. It is important to nurture and spoil yourself. One of the muse’s skill is to learn to acknowledge this, remember and direct her emotions. Direct the emotions means to understand them and to be able to “digest” them and present the end product to the outside world as something more balanced and relevant to the situation.
10. Quality of Growth
Muse is always learning. She never stops. She always remembers who she is, what it is – to be a woman, and how to nurture and maintain her feminine essence.
Remember to be a muse, darlings.
*God – a non-religious reference to a Higher Power or Source.
I feel such fullness reading this 🥰 May I ask for elaboration on the statement: “Her duty is to carefully guard and protect his everything: emotions, feelings, his truth, his essence. If she protects it, he protects her and carries her.” I feel confusion reading this as it feels counterintuitive to feminine energy. He is the protector by nature, although I feel resonance in the intention behind this sentiment. May I have clarification?
Ksenia Sita says
Hello Tricia, great question. On the level of emotions and feelings, women are true masters and are truly powerful. Because of how much stronger we are emotionally, we have the ability to act as a protector of our men on this level. So, in times of distress like war, usually women remain much stronger in their Spirit, and that helps tremendously. Keeping peace in the heart and soul is our way to protect them from being disturbed or wounded, as men are usually much less able to do that. I hope it makes sense <3
Harriett hess says
Today I was looking up being a muse, as yesterday a woman called me a muse ?
I work with Artist and think of my self as a Artist Agent, my gallery is now closed but I hang with Artist. Some gal I just met asked me if the guy I was with was my son ? Since he is only 4 years younger I was upset and answered oh that would be incest. Why I answered like that I do not know. It’s my birthday week so I was thinking getting older is difficult anyway but shocked as I don’t think he looks that young plus he had his V war hat on ?
Well in my quest for looking up a muse I found your site.
I love talent and have always followed Artist, music, sports ( golf & skiing ect. I have always liked men. I was the first woman sales Manager for Max Factor, Mary Quant, Sanders Candy & Topps Chewing Gum. I have always worked with men and was a good Rep. Working hard but being joyful always. I never had problems and was a great Rep. My accounts trusted means I was golden.