Feminine traits may sound a little vague and old-fashioned but I am here to change this point of view 🙂
What are the real feminine traits and qualities? And why do women need them? This is what we will talk about today. Trust me, like always I will offer a different and new perspective on each of them, and will give some life examples to help you understand them better.
Most importantly, I would like you to experience each of them. So pick the one you’ve been missing all this time and try to practice the next few days. And let me know how it goes.
Ok, let’s look at them.
1. Compliance
I can imagine how many women would stop reading after this. And this is unfortunate. Feminine compliance has nothing to do with any negativity it has been associated with lately. The real compliance of a woman is the first and main feminine trait that makes her a woman. Such a woman chooses to not compete with a man for anything and nowhere – not at work, nor at home. If a woman competes with a man, she acts like another man, and naturally, no one would call her feminine no matter how she looks.
Why do we need it?
Simple – to have a peaceful life and relationships with a man. I need you to remember once and for all – arguing and fighting with a man is destructive for both you and him because in those moments he does not fight with a woman, he fights with a man in a dress. Men always compete with each other. Even best friends sometimes have arguments, intellectual or physical competitions, just to see and check whether each of them still has the same position in their tribe – someone is weaker, someone is stronger.
So, naturally for men is it incredibly pleasing and soothing when a woman does not have this ever-present impulse to fight any minute. A wise and feminine woman will not offer to talk about who knows better about the latest technologies or how to help bring the economics of other countries to another level. She can certainly have a conversation about it but not for the purpose of showing who is smarter but just because she is interested in talking about in a competent manner.
When the two of you want to see different movies, let him watch what he wants together with him. You will watch your romantic comedy snext time, and your man will feel so good because he physically needs this kind of behaviour. If a woman is compliant then she does not equal “danger”. A man can trust her and relax with her, he can open up.
The toughest and scariest man on earth will melt when after all of the wars and fightings he comes home and instead of lecturing him or asking him to do something else, his woman gives him a chamomile tea. Even the toughest men needs this space – where they can let all of their guards down and be little boys again, where it is allowed to be weak and emotional. Soft and feminine compliance is the ultimate definition of femininity for most men.
2. Ability To Adapt
A feminine woman knows to adapt to any situation, wisely changing her moods and looks that corresponds to the environment. She will always have several images for each situation and person, and especially several erotic looks that she would change with her beloved. This need to adapt does not scare her, on the contrary – it makes her playful and even more creative.
Why do we need it?
We need it to be able to peacefully co-exist with the whole world, with all the people around us. Women need this to win over people, to attract and keep the attention of the partner. Feminine traits and femininity are traits of personality and physical appearance that make us different from men. About 70% of them are due to our genetics and hormones and other 30% are there because of our upbringing and life conditions.
3. Lightness
This feminine trait is special because a lot of men hardly talk about it but they all feel it really well. A feminine woman is a light woman, and a light woman does not stress anyone with her diseases, her issues, her life sufferings, or just a bad mood. And during PMS the best way is to retreat somewhere far away, if possible. And leave with words: “Leaving for a day or two, don’t look for me. I am having my “bad days”. Will be back soon”. Being light means cry a little over some complications, then letting it go and continue on with your life. That’s it. It is not being careless, it is being light and being able to accept and face any difficulty with grace and never regret about anything.
Why do we need it?
If you didn’t already guess, this amazing feminine quality helps relationships tremendously. It is typical for a man to get stuck in struggles and problems, tasks he needs to complete. And only a light woman like you can help him move, can distract him. And after this, his mind will lighten up and all of the thoughts will come to order, and solutions will appear. Feminine lightness brings any man through any imaginable obstacle and let him forget about it.
4. Joy And Zest For Life
Noticing delicious details of life around you does not only make you more gentle and feminine but also more unique. Not very many people stop and smell roses. Be one of them. I literally stop and smell flowers every time I see them because I simply cannot resist. Appreciate their beauty, their delicate nature, their colors, their fragrance. What can be more elegant and feminine? A feminine woman would always notice little details here and there and would always find joy around her. And then she would share it with people. She loves rain, she loves stars, she adores sunsets and the colorful reflection of a pink sky on a soothing lake surface.
Why do we need it?
We actually most likely all have these traits but are often shy to express them. Woman’s estrogen makes her more sensitive and sentimental, so she is happy easier, she laughs easier and she cries easier. It is harder for a man to experience unreasonable happiness like for a woman because he barely has estrogen and also has much less neurotransmitters of joy. So when there is this happy creature (you) next to him gets excited and happy from a falling leaf or a pretty cloud, he actually starts paying attention too. When you get excited from the fact that your man invited you to the restaurant after a movie, he gets truly amazed but this reaction. He feels like a true hero, a magician – he just made someone happy just like that. This makes him very happy.
Admiration and enthusiasm create this zest, taste for life. A feminine woman can enjoy life and create a truly cozy place around her. She is open-minded and curious about a lot of things. So with this eternal love for life, she also drags her man in there. And he realizes that it is so nice and comfortable to be around her. Life is delicious with her.
5. Good Memory Of Good Things
This is an ability to keep all the good memories and then share them with your man and loved ones, helping them remember a wonderful past they had.
Why do we need it?
This kind of memory is truly a feminine trait. Memory of good things help people around you think that they live a good life with good things happening to them. And a man especially feels that there is a point in everything – to live and try, to make effort and to create, because it is remembered long and valued highly. A wise and feminine woman would always casually remind about something that happened before and bring him a smile: “Do you remember we were sitting here last year, laughing and making jokes? And then you said I have a butterfly on my shoulder. And then you touched it and it flew away”.
He would never remember it but she would. And at that moment when she shares it, he melts like an ice cream under the sun. A feminine woman would remember about every anniversary and how it was celebrated last year. And instead of nagging and criticizing that he forgot she would gently start reminding him a week before, sharing her memories from the past.
6. Less Principles, More Humans
Let me destroy another myth here and tell you that a feminine trait of choosing people of principles actually saves our world. For a feminine woman a human being is always more important than an idea. Only her can have compassion for an enemy when he is truly miserable and open her heart offering him help even when the whole world will be against him. And then even marry him.
Why do we need it?
We need this for the survival of our family and our entire ancestry. Ideas and principles in general make it difficult to survive. And here is why. For example, a professor with strict principles immigrates to another country where he needs to work as a taxi driver to survive. And he will die in a year or two because he would be stressed about, he would feel ashamed, he would simply be unable to work and would have some heart attack.
And if it is some female teacher from school who moves to another country, she starts working in an assisted living facility with older people that might be uncomfortable and not what she used to be doing, but it feeds her and gives her a place to live. So, little by little, she eventually starts her own business for her own assisted living facility or just some care company for older people.
For a man, it is very hard to ignore his pride, to ignore a word he gave earlier. And for a woman, it is hard to see how her loved ones are suffering. And so for the sake of the well-being of her family she would forget her own word a hundred times. This feminine trait is very useful when we choose a partner. A person might be terrible for everyone else but is the best for you. It is scary to think about how many men would be unwanted if women would only follow their principles and ideas.
7. Feminine Appearance
And again, our darling estrogen is the reason of our physical appearance. This is a female hormone that makes us fertile and our body curvy and delicious. A feminine woman generally wears a lot of skirts and dresses, heels, and jewelry, and she looks somewhat unstable. This makes everyone around her, especially men, want to hold her and help her stay on her feet. This is actually a literal and figurative statement so contemplate it. Usually, a feminine woman does not like short haircuts and wears her hair loose or in some pretty hairdo. And this hairdo is oh so attractive to a man because he is always tempted to tousle it.
Here you have it, 7 feminine traits you probably already have but don’t dare to express. Please, stop right now and allow yourself to be you – a beautiful, juicy, seductive, playful, amazing, unforgettable Feminine Woman.
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