One of the sure ways to lose your feminine energy is to live your way in a masculine way. Unfortunately, since we live in a patriarchal world based on patriarchal principles of life, most parents raise girls like boys. When we have a baby boy, the best any parent can do is to help him find and develop his natural abilities and talents by putting him in various classes, workshops, schools, and trainings. That will allow him later to reach any goal he wants. If there is a baby girl, it is a completely different story.
The main point for a girl’s upbringing is to let her be herself and allow her to naturally open up her abilities and talents by not getting her involved in many things. This is contrary to what many parents do because they just don’t know there is another way of doing it. Since we all live in a patriarchal society and were raised in a patriarchal way, we really don’t know how to raise a girl in a feminine way that is organic to her. By putting her in various classes, we don’t allow her spirituality to come out. And this results in her losing her feminine energy.
Later in life, these girls grow up not knowing who they really are and what they want in life. Her feminine essence is lost and it comes to her only when she is much older. So then she does not know what to do with herself. How can she know if she was not raised with this knowledge? Luckily, there are several ways to stop losing what is left of your energy and start conserving it. And that is no less important than raising it in the first place.
If you follow these 8 recommendations on keeping your feminine energy you will start feeling how you slowly come back to yourself, you’ll feel more desirable and more fulfilled.
Keep your lower belly and your loins covered. This is where our precious feminine energy is stored and those areas of the body should be very protected at all times. Ideally, only your man and your child should have access to it, both visually and physically. Just remember that these places are intimate. So, the look of a short top and pants sitting low on your hips is one of the worst.
Try to grow your calm state of mind and acceptance. If a girl always worries about something it means she does not feel enough power in her that would allow her to protect loved ones with her trust in the Universe (you can read that again if you need to). Nature walks or relaxing music will help you with that. Another way to do it is to try meditation.
Your Hair Care
Take care of your hair. I have mentioned that before many times. Your hair is your concentration of energy. If your hair is pulled together in a bun or a braid, all your energy stays and focuses on you. If your hair is free and loose, all your energy distributes to all the people around you. You can feel that very well if you experiment one day with your hair. So, let your hair loose more when you are surrounded by people you know and love.
Dress nicely but modestly. I am not talking about being dressed like a nun but when you go outside there is a whole world out there with various people and various thoughts. If you dress in a way that reveals a lot of your skin, subconsciously you are attracting and welcoming attention from other men and in fact, it is the way of being unfaithful to your partner, imagine that. You can dress very sexual and sensual and still not reveal much of yourself. Learn to do that. And of course, dress very sensually with revealed parts of your body when you go on a date with your man.
Grow your spirituality. You can pick your own way, whether you want to stick to your religion and visit church or you want to chant mantras and visit a Buddhist center every Friday. Anything will do, as long as you practice something. When your connection with Spirit is strong, all your family is protected. This will also allow you to trust the Universe and to accept things the way they are easier. You will become more grateful for what you already have as well.
Self-Care = Self-Love
Pay more attention to your body. Take care of your hands and nails, wash your hair, have pedicures, use perfumes or floral waters. These little things may not be significant to you but they are significant to your man and together they may create a wrong impression of you. Self-care is the very first step to self-love. Make sure to have occasional massage sessions, beauty procedures, aromatic hot baths. And next time you have your beauty self-love day, notice how your energy changes after that. Your energetic channels clear up and fill up with new energy which makes you relaxed and glowing.
Learn To Trust
Trust your man. If you have a man in your life, just trust him. It can be hard, especially if you are stubborn. But there is a reason he is in your life and you should give him a chance. Be ready to follow him at any moment. Then you will never have to complain that you need to do everything by yourself. Don’t be shy to ask him for help, even in little things. And when he brings you a gift, just be grateful and happy, and smile. Everyone likes to see a grateful smiling face and they would want to give you more gifts naturally.
Say No To Gossiping
Do not gossip about your personal relationships with your friends. When you share intimate details of your family life, in a way you destroy your little world by exposing it. It is especially not good when you talk badly about your partner or complain about him. Never do that and never talk about your life in a negative way.
Last but not the least. Just remember that our main mission is simply to be happy, and share this happiness with others generously. So be happy and make the world happy!